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Psychotherapy for anxiety in older adults

Treatment of Anxiety in Older Adults

If you’re aware of increased anxiety in an elder loved one, contact their doctor as soon as possible and have a geriatric evaluation. Confirm that anxiety is present and what other mental health or medical conditions might be occurring as well. There are different effective treatment options to help older adults manage anxiety. Counseling and medications are important tools in the management of anxiety. If there is severe dementia or cognitive impairment, counseling therapies may not be as effective.


Psychotherapy for anxiety may be the best initial treatment option because seniors are at higher risk to have side effects from medications. A research study found that 46% of older patients with anxiety (including generalized anxiety disorder, but not restricted to this diagnosis) experienced a relief of symptoms with Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, compared with 14% of controls.7 There has also been successful reduction of symptoms using only psychotherapy, or psychotherapy with a lower dose of medication.

The preferred therapy methods used to treat anxious seniors includes:

  1. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT): A short-term therapy to help people change negative patterns of thinking and feeling.
  2. Problem Solving Therapy: Helps patients use new techniques to solve problems from stressors to help enhance the quality of their life.
  3. Reminiscence Therapy: Talk therapy to help people remember times from their past that offer positive, pleasant memories.
  4. Desensitization Therapy: This treatment is to help patients identify situations that trigger anxiety. It helps them face these situations in a safe environment using learned skills of anxiety reduction and management.

All these psychotherapies are short-term, usually lasting between eight to twelve sessions. Counselors offer support, adaptive techniques, and insights about the causes of anxiety. Anxiety treatment offers a combination of coping and relaxation skills. Therapy helps patients recognize anxiety symptoms and teaches them how to manage them before they escalate.

While all of these therapy techniques include verbal aspects, they also typically include education and support through helping someone develop tools to manage their anxiety. These may include progressive muscle relaxation, tools for sleeping better, and deep breathing.8

Lifestyle Changes

Adjusting environments and lifestyle are powerful treatment tools in working with the elderly. Examples include regular exercise, getting enough sleep, eating well, and socialization. Having structure, stimulation, and a sense of control can help reduce a senior’s anxiety.9


Medication for anxiety is not typically the first treatment used with seniors. Most older adults take multiple medications, and there are concerns about how the medications may interact. Anxiety medications can have more significant side effects with an elderly population. Because of these concerns, it is recommended that anti anxiety medications be prescribed by your primary care medical doctor or physicians with geriatric expertise. Primary care physicians will have the most complete information regarding medical history and current medications. If a psychiatrist is recommended, share the patient ‘s medical history, current medications and dosage, so the psychiatrist has a good understanding of patient history.

Does Medicare Cover Anxiety Treatment?

Medicare Part A or hospital insurance covers the costs for inpatient mental health treatment in a psychiatric or general services hospital. This includes nursing care, medication, lab work, therapy, and other therapy for treatment.

Medicare Part B is for outpatient services. There is coverage for mental health diagnoses like anxiety. Patients must be seen by a properly licensed and certified mental health practitioner. Talk to your mental health practitioner about fees, because Medicare reimbursement may not cover everything. Medicare coverage includes ten mental health sessions annually.

How to Get Help for Anxiety in Older Adults

If anxiety appears to be present in older adults the first step is to see their physician. The doctor will identify any medical conditions that may be causing anxiety symptoms. You can get a referral for a gerontologist, a doctor with expertise working with the elderly. Referrals can come from doctors, friends, or other family members. Local Area Aging offices or hospitals may also have referral information for finding geriatric physicians. You can go to the Geriatric Mental Health Foundation to help you find a psychiatrist.

It is good to have someone who has frequently observed the patient attend these appointments. This ensures the doctor has accurate information for the assessment. Seniors are not always straightforward when they self-report, sometimes because of cognitive or memory deficits or denial regarding their level of functioning.

How to Get Help for a Loved One

If a senior loved one is experiencing anxiety they are likely feeling helpless and afraid. They need reassurance that help is available and they are not alone. Recognize that your older loved one’s fears and anxiety are very real to them, and try to accept rather than challenge or minimize them. If it appears counseling is necessary, an online therapist directory can be a great place to start to find a therapist who specializes in older adult mental health.

Reasons for a loved one’s anxiety need to be identified if possible so that appropriate steps can be taken. For example, if there are fears about a medical condition, connecting a loved one with a doctor will help diminish anxiety. If they are worried about what is going on in the world, reducing their time watching TV or listening to the radio can alleviate their anxiety. These simple acts can reduce additional caregiving needs for loved ones.

Untreated anxiety may cause additional stress for loved ones. If it is possible to have friends or  family spend more time with seniors, do it to reduce their time alone. Respite time is very critical to the wellbeing of family members. Look into local senior or adult day programs that might provide socialization opportunities. If the senior is reluctant or unable to leave home, there are  home companion programs.

When you’re uncertain about what to do or what programs are available, consult a geriatric care manager—a licensed clinician with expertise in working with the elderly. They can offer assessments and advice about available elder care options. They also can connect older adults with local resources and support family members.

Talking to an Older Adult About Their Mental Health

When talking to an older loved one about their anxiety and other related mental health problems, remember to stay calm and collaborative. Show your concern, but be sure not to judge them when they share their fears or concerns.

When approaching an older loved one about their mental health, there are key concepts to remember:

  • Think of it as a collaboration rather than a confrontation
  • Let them know you love them and are concerned about their health
  • Help them understand what they are experiencing is not unusual and they are not alone
  • Do not judge what they say even if you disagree with it
  • Ask them about their biggest fears and wishes regarding their future
  • Offer assurance that you want to do what you can to help them maintain as healthy, safe, and independent a lifestyle as possible

There are several questions you can raise to understand how realistic older adults are regarding their abilities and where they may be struggling:

  • What specific things do they believe they need help with?
  • If they express concerns, ask how you can help them make their environment feel more safe?
  • How do they perceive they are doing mentally, emotionally and physically?
  • Do they have any anxiety regarding their mental and physical well being?
  • Would they be open to getting medical or mental health professional help for their anxiety?
  • Is there someone they would want to work with?
  • If not can they identify someone they trust to make a referral?

9 Ways to Help an Older Adult Reduce Anxiety

There are many things that can be done for seniors to help reduce their anxiety. You don’t need to be a mental health professional to do them, but many of these tips are great strategies to implement alongside professional treatment.

Here are nine recommendations to help you calm anxiety in an older adult:

1. Remain Connected to Your Loved One

Isolation can be intertwined with anxiety. If possible, spend more time with them. If you cannot do this, arrange for companionship through a relative, friend, neighbor, or a home care program. Check out local senior or adult day programs. Use technology like Facetime or Zoom or the telephone to maintain contact if face to face visitation is not possible. Reinforce the message that they are not alone.

2. Encourage Them to Make Healthy Lifestyle Changes to Reduce Their Anxiety

Reinforce maintaining a healthy diet and low impact exercise. If you can, participate with them. Try fun things for exercise like taking a walk or dancing. Teach them (or learn together!) deep breathing, yoga, or meditation exercises to manage anxiety.

3. Actively Listen to Them Sharing Their Fears & Concerns

Do this without judgement. Don’t minimize their feelings. Let them know it’s normal to have anxiety and that you understand. Reinforce the idea that you want to do what you can to help them cope with these fears so they can feel better.

4. Help Them Connect With Professionals

If anxiety continues to diminish their health and functionality, you can intercede with information regarding healthcare providers. Offer to connect them with healthcare professionals that can address their fears and anxiety. If possible, attend the appointments with them.

5. Take Note of When the Anxiety Is the Worst

For example, some seniors have Sundowners Syndrome, where they get more confused and anxious at night. Be cognizant of this and have a plan in place so extra support is available at times of higher anxiety.

6. Encourage Distance Between Your Loved One & the Source of Anxiety

For example, if they are getting anxious about events in the news, advise them to stop listening to the news. If a person they know does or says things to reinforce their anxiety try to limit their time together.

7. Utilize Fun Distractions

Distraction is a great tool to combat anxiety. Recommend a fun project they can do or you can do together. Putting photographs in albums, sewing, reading books, doing puzzles, or making a musical playlist are ideas. Try to engage in activities you know they enjoy and that highlight their skills. This can strengthen your relationship and their self esteem.

8. Identify Sources of Anxiety

Consider what you can do to help. For example, if paying bills and finances create anxiety, offer to help. Go through the mail together, help create a budget.

9. Educate Yourself About Anxiety

What causes it, how do people display symptoms, what are the best treatment options. Share what you have learned with your loved one.

Senior Anxiety Statistics

This statistical information sheds more light on anxiety and its relationship with older adults.

Here are some significant statistics regarding anxiety in older adults:

  • The commonest anxiety disorder seen in clinical practice is Generalized Anxiety Disorder (GAD), (7.3%), followed by phobias (3.1%), panic disorder (1%) and Obsessive Compulsive Disorder (0.6%)


  • Generalized Anxiety Disorder seldom occurs alone. Up to 90% of patients with this disorder also have symptoms of another mental health problem such as depression, dysthymia, bipolar disorder, or substance abuse.


  • Over their lifetimes, about 15% of those who survive past the age of 65 will have an anxiety disorder.


  • Anxiety, like depression, is among the most prevalent, mental health problems among older adults with almost half of older adults who are diagnosed with a major depression also meet the criteria for anxiety.


  • Hispanic adults age 50 or older were slightly more likely to report a lifetime diagnosis of an anxiety disorder compared to white, non Hispanic, black, non Hispanic, or other, Non Hispanic adults (14.5% compared to 12.6%, 11%, and 14.2% respectively)


  • 10-20% of the older population have anxiety, though it is often undiagnosed. Phobia—when an individual is fearful of certain things, places, or events—is the most typical type of anxiety.


There are numerous assessment tools available to determine if an anxiety diagnosis is present in a senior. All assessments should be reviewed by a trained healthcare professional to accurately interpret results.

These assessment tools fall into three categories:

  1. Self Rated: The patient fills this assessment tool out. It is self reported.
  2. Observer Rated: People who have observed the patient complete these assessments.
  3. Assessment scales or tests administered by trained interviewers who are Mental Health Professionals.

The test most frequently used to assess anxiety in older adults is the Geriatric Anxiety Inventory. It has 20 Agree/Disagree items to assess the most frequent anxiety symptoms. The measurements of symptoms with this inventory are limited in order to minimize confusion between symptoms common to anxiety and general medical conditions.11

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